My personal opinion on people who wallow in self-pity. I just feel that, yes, everyone is entitled to some self-pity sometimes. We need to feel bad about ourselves so we can improve.
But what annoys me the most is when people actually realize that there are things they need to change, but they don't want to put in the effort to do so, and they just keep complaining about the same things over and over again.
The only person with the ability to make any difference in your life is you. Just feeling bad about yourself isn't going to make a difference unless you take action. If you need help, go get help. But nothing's going to happen unless you actually DO something.
Of course people would say that I don't know what they're going through and I don't have the right to say anything. Yes, I may not know what you're going through, but are you really just going to sit there and keep complaining? Because no one can help you but yourself.
So buck up, and start to do something about it.
But everything's just my opinion anyway.
Signing off,
The Busy Bee.
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